For La Verne Ford Wimberley, the coming Sunday will be the second Easter Sunday when she will attend the church service virtually.
La Verne from Oklahoma is 82, a widow living on her
own since 2009. She is formally referred to as Dr Wimberley. Holding a doctorate
in education, she was a school principal for many years.
For more than twenty years, she has been going to the
Metropolitan Baptist Church on Sunday mornings. She had picked up a little
routine from her mother. On Saturday evening, she would choose a nice outfit
and a matching church hat and lay it out. She wanted to be prepared and
presentable before going to the church. She always sat in the last row, section
two, dressed to the nines.
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On 29 March 2020, Le Verne learnt that the Sunday mass
would be streamed online due to the coronavirus threat. She couldn’t imagine
herself wearing her gown and slippers to attend the service on screen. ‘Oh my
goodness’, she said to herself, ‘I can’t sit here looking slouchy in my robe.’
That Sunday, she woke up early as always to style her hair, put on some
lipstick and wore a favorite white dress trimmed with eyelets, a pure white ruffled
hat, matching shoes and a beaded turquoise and gold necklace.
On a whim, after the service, she took a selfie and
posted it on Facebook.
The following Sunday she was all blue, and on Easter
Sunday last year, she chose a pink skirt, a beaded sweater jacket, and a hat
decorated with pink and yellow lilies.
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She started dressing up every Sunday, and posting her
selfies. She kept a calendar so as to never repeat an outfit. (Clever, because
in photos it is easier to notice someone repeating an attire). On the previous
fifty-three Sundays, she has worn fifty-three different outfits, all coordinated
down to the smallest detail. Her fashion includes a variety of hats with huge
bows and ribbons, statement jewelry, matching shoes, pearl necklaces, lipstick,
tidy hair.
Le Verne is no Princess Diana, but her outfits are
tasteful and diverse. On social media, her outfits started receiving hundreds
of comments, positive. The photos made them smile. She said she wanted people
to focus not on the selfies but on the message that her fellow churchgoers
should keep faith. She wished to inspire people and make them feel good. On her
facebook page, so many strangers wrote their spirits were boosted seeing her
enthusiasm and optimism.
*****
Recently, she was interviewed by the media. People notice
she hasn’t repeated an outfit for an entire year.
Le Verne said being 82 years old had its advantages.
She has been buying clothes for many years, and she has kept most of them because
they are of good quality. She has three wardrobes and a collection of church
hats, neatly placed in hatboxes.
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I have a group of international friends covering the
global map all the way from America to Australia. All of us studied Russian
language together at a Moscow university. On one Sunday every month, despite awkward
timings for some, we gather on Zoom and spend a delightful couple of hours.
After reading the story of Le Verne, I have decided to
wear a suit, tie and shoes for the next meeting. If I make this suggestion to
my friends, I think most of them will be tempted to dress up as well. It is
time to come out of the wretched sweatpants and t-shirts. The theatre comes alive
only with the right costumes.
*****
Ravi
Love this story. And the ending too !
ReplyDeleteSuch a sweet affirming story, love it .I am not however tempted to dress up at all :). My wardrobe is not as diverse.
ReplyDeleteA really feel good story. We need more people with this kind of positive attitude and enthusiasm
ReplyDeleteमाझ्या सारख्या गबाळ्या बाईला फारच महत्वाचे
ReplyDeleteWonderful story and lady
ReplyDeleteLove the story. In one of our standing zoom meetings we also created a dress code by everyone’s consensus. Not a ton of outfits but still fun!
ReplyDeleteThat said I am so looking forward to the end of zoom era
wonderful!
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