In
November, I attended a reunion of the former employees of British American
Tobacco, Poland. I had lived and worked in Warsaw between 1999 and 2002. Last
month, I met many ex-colleagues after a gap of fifteen years. Men had become
plumper, greyer, balder but easily recognisable. Girls, however, have a
fantastic ability to not change. They were just slightly mature versions of
those I had said goodbye to fifteen years ago.
We
spent a delightful evening, which began with a film specially created using old
photos, brands we sold and campaigns we ran. We recalled incidents and
flashbulb memories from the good old days. In conversations, and later FB comments,
the term ‘nostalgic’ was frequently used. In this week’s diary, I want to
analyze what nostalgia is and why it makes us emotional.
Nostalgia
a disease
Strangely,
for centuries of its existence, the word nostalgia referred to a medical
disease, a psychiatric disorder. In the 17th century, Swiss
mercenaries were often hired to serve in foreign armies. They possessed proven
battlefield expertise. (Even today, the Pope and the Vatican are protected by
the Swiss Guard). Young Swiss soldiers, stationed in Italy or France; on seeing
a tree or terrain that reminded them of home; on hearing a familiar Swiss
melody, often became ill. They complained of giddiness, high fever, pain in the
chest or stomach, indigestion. In extreme cases, some of them died. A Swiss PhD
student Johannes Hofer called it the Swiss illness (mal du Suisse) or Nostalgia.
Nostalgia was coined by combining two Greek words ‘nostos’ (homecoming) and
algos (pain). In English it can be loosely translated as ‘homesickness’.
We
must remember that in the 17th century, going abroad was very
different from today. Swiss mercenaries who left for Italy or France took
months to reach their foreign employers. They had no phones or Facetime. They
knew or suspected they would never see their homeland again. That made their
yearning for home unbearable. The only known
“cure” was to return home, and many tried to, only to be punished by death for
deserting.
For
the next two centuries, nostalgia remained a disorder in medical parlance. Only
in the last fifty years or so (in times of relative peace), research has begun
to focus on its positive aspects.
Nostalgia
versus homesickness
In
modern times, nostalgia has a much broader meaning than homesickness. ‘Saudade’
is another word, in Portuguese, that represents a state of profound longing for
an absent person or thing that one loves. It’s a beautiful but sad word, often implying
that the object of longing would never return. It can be translated as missing-ness
or emptiness, love that remains after someone/something is gone. The premature
death of a close family member produces Saudade.
Nostalgia,
as understood in the 21st century, refers no longer to a “physical”,
but a ‘metaphorical’ home. If you imagine our ‘past’ to be a home that
is different from our ‘present’, you will appreciate why we become so happy in
revisiting the past. It’s time travel. The longer the distance (time gap), the
more happiness this homecoming generates.
When
I met my Polish friends/colleagues last month, all of us were transported back
in time. I revisited my “home” that I had shared with them more than fifteen years
ago.
Smell,
taste, music, photo albums
Smell,
taste and touch are capable of making us nostalgic. If you visit your school
after 30 years, you may recall some smells you never experienced thereafter. Or
you may unexpectedly eat something you haven’t tasted since your childhood. Taste
and smell can make you nostalgic. However, mankind has still not managed to
record those sensations. Our access to them is rare and accidental. We can’t run
a Google search for a smell, nor send it to a friend on whatsApp. Which is not
the case with music. Or photos. We can capture them, search for them or forward
them. We can lose ourselves going through old B &W photo albums.
Music
is known to be a powerful nostalgia producer. Research has shown that music
heard during the age 12-22 leaves the strongest emotions within us. Music is capable of re-creating a certain
period of our life. For people my age from the English speaking world, the song
‘those were the days’ by Mary Hopkin may bring back their youth and romance.
Its video clip is aptly black and white.
Television
arrived in Bombay in 1972. The signature tune created by the sitar maestro Ravishankar
represents the B&W television era in the minds of Bombay tele-viewers. A
clip of a few seconds makes them nostalgic, hugely happy but also sad about the
time to which they can no longer return.
I
think distance in time, and distance in geography both matter.
When I lived in Europe, some Indian songs made me deeply nostalgic, to the point
of tears. The bhelpuri I ate in London or New York made me sentimental.
When I hear the same song in India or eat bhelpuri in Bombay, they don’t have the
same emotional impact. That is the reason emigrants always look for things from
back home. In that, they are like the Swiss mercenaries. They no longer fall
ill or die like the Swiss soldiers, because if desperate, they can always take
a flight and visit home.
The
same can’t be done when you travel back in time, particularly revisit your distant
past. When someone married thirty years ago looks at his wedding album, it
brings back all related memories from that time. He is amazed at how young
everyone looks. He looks with admiration at his hairy head in the photo. The
pleasure is tinged with the pain of our inability to turn back the clock, of
the good old days that will never come back.
Personal
vs collective (historical) nostalgia
Your
wedding album is essentially your personal nostalgia. It is unlikely to create
the same emotions in a stranger. On the other hand, the Bombay TV signature
tune or the Mary Hopkin song is a collective nostalgia. We share a common past
with our friends from school, from university, from our workplace, with our
fellow-citizens, and finally as global citizens. Now that we use smart phones,
pictures of old phone instruments, typewriters, or heavy cameras make us
nostalgic for things unlikely to make a comeback.
Facebook
cleverly uses nostalgia for a commercial purpose. It focuses on both your
personal nostalgia (We thought that you’d like to look back on this post
from 10 years ago- FB) as well as the collective nostalgia (your year in
review, please share with your friends-FB)
Political
tool
It
is believed ‘nostalgia’ is the reason Trump and Brexit have happened.
Older
people who predominantly voted for them longed for the good old days, when
America was great, and Britain was truly sovereign. The blue British passports
didn’t have European Union on the cover.
Using the slogan “Make America Great Again,” Trump didn’t
simply invoke the idea of an idealized past. He provoked the anxious feelings
that make nostalgia especially attractive — and effective — as a tool of
political persuasion.
Nostalgia often filters the bad memories out, leaving only
the good moments that make us feel warm. BAT, Poland had its share of corporate
politics, nasty bosses and unpleasant arguments. However, last month the bad
blood from the past was forgotten. We mainly remembered the good times. (Those
with overwhelmingly bad memories don’t turn up for nostalgic meetings).
In communist countries like Russia, many people have
forgotten how bad life used to be: the queues, the shortages, and the paranoid police
state. They now focus on the State support and zero inflation, the two positive
things from Soviet days. One reason for Vladimir Putin to be in power for such
a long time could be the nostalgic desire of the Russians to have stability,
security and a superpower status like in the Soviet times.
Benefits of nostalgia
Recent
research on the subject of nostalgia has pointed out many of its benefits.
a.
Gives an overall sense of
enduring meaning to our life. By acting as continuity between past and present,
it alleviates existential threat.
b.
Nostalgia generates positive
effect, increases self-esteem, and fosters social connectedness.
c.
Counteracts against loneliness,
boredom and anxiety.
d.
Makes people generous to
strangers, more tolerant to outsiders.
e.
Couples feel closer and look
happier when they share nostalgic memories.
f.
More than one research say
nostalgia literally makes us feel warmer in cold days or in cold rooms.
Nostalgia makes us more human.
g.
When the present is
distressing, people often look to the past for support.
In short, in your cleaning drive, please don’t throw away old
letters, photos, documents, particularly the handwritten stuff. All of them are
capable of injecting a dose of nostalgia in you – it can act like a drug that
produces euphoria.
Don’t lose an opportunity to meet friends from old times.
Those reunions are bound to make you happy. If you are feeling miserable, if
the weather is cold, listen to your favourite songs from your teens. Visit
places from your childhood, go back to your school building, and meet your
ex-colleagues several years after changing jobs. It’s a guaranteed recipe for feeling
happy.
Ravi
Hi, i used to think, being nostalgic means recalling memories.
ReplyDeleteBut as you have described in the article, it's a medicine for a person. Nostalgia helps us to become happy . Very true.
It also helps us to look at the past being neutral. Thanks for analysing nostalgia
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